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7 Things Empty Nesters Should Consider Before Downsizing and Listing Their Home for Sale in Honolulu

For many Honolulu homeowners, the day the last child moves out marks a new chapter — one filled with freedom, travel, and simpler living. But before you jump into selling your longtime family home, take a moment to plan your next move carefully.

Here are 7 important things every empty nester should consider before downsizing and listing their home for sale in Honolulu.


1. Define What “Downsizing” Means for You

Downsizing doesn’t always mean moving into the smallest space possible. It’s about right-sizing your lifestyle.

Do you want a low-maintenance condo near Ala Moana, a townhome in Hawaii Kai, or a cottage in Kailua with a walkable community vibe?

Start by defining what you want to keep — views, storage, outdoor space — and what you’re ready to let go of.


2. Understand Today’s Honolulu Real Estate Market

Before listing, get a clear picture of what your home is worth in today’s market and how much smaller properties cost.

Honolulu’s neighborhoods vary dramatically in price per square foot, association fees, and maintenance costs. A seasoned local agent like myself can help you compare net proceeds versus your next purchase costs to ensure your downsize doesn’t become an unexpected expense.


3. Consider Lifestyle, Not Just Square Footage

Downsizing should feel like an upgrade in convenience and comfort.
Think about your day-to-day life:

  • Do you want to walk to restaurants and shops?

  • Get rid of any stairs in your new home?
  • Prefer an ocean view over yardwork?

  • Want a building with security, amenities, and easy access to medical care?
    Lifestyle should drive your decision as much as price or size.


4. Evaluate the Tax and Financial Implications

Selling a longtime home can have tax consequences, but also opportunities.

Hawaii’s property tax exemptions, federal capital gains exclusions, and potential 1031 exchanges for investment moves are all worth exploring.

Consulting with your tax advisor before listing can help you make the smartest financial move for this stage of life.


5. Plan for Decluttering and Emotional Attachment

After decades in the same home, it’s not just stuff you’re sorting through, it’s memories.
Start early with room-by-room decluttering. Decide what to keep, donate, or digitize.

Many empty nesters find this process emotionally freeing once they see how it opens up space for new adventures ahead.


6. Research Maintenance, HOA Fees, and Accessibility

Moving to a condo or townhome often means trading yardwork for HOA dues.

Understand what’s included — insurance, water, cable, maintenance reserves — and make sure the community’s rules and accessibility match your long-term needs.

A good buyer’s agent will help you evaluate HOA documents and identify hidden costs before committing.


7. Call Jon S. Mann Before You List

Downsizing can be one of the most rewarding moves of your life — when it’s done strategically.
As a Honolulu real estate broker with over 20 years of experience, I specialize in helping empty nesters make smooth transitions — from pricing your home right to finding your next low-maintenance retreat.
Let’s talk about your goals, your timing, and the best plan for making your move stress-free.

Call Jon S. Mann at 808-728-1230 or visit HawaiiLife.com/JonMann to get started.

About the Author

Jon Mann

Jon Mann is a REALTOR Broker, Broker-In-Charge with Hawai'i Life. With a passion for Hawai‘i real estate that spans over two decades, I bring a wealth of expertise and a track record of success to my position as Broker-in-Charge of Hawaii Life's East O‘ahu office. As a seasoned real estate professional since 2003, I have dedicated my career to helping individuals achieve their Hawai‘i real estate goals and aspirations. You can email me at jon.mann@hawaiilife.com or via phone at (808) 728-1230.

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